Take Em', I am sure that all of us understand where you are coming from and what you are trying to say. I understand. You would like to see bigger deer on the public land by "letting them go, so they can grow". That is a completely valid and understandable position.
Hunters in general are very prideful people, proud of there country, proud of their hunting heritage, and proud of themselves. By your definition you are stating that (now this is a guess off the top of my head) most of the American deer hunters are not "true hunters". At least that is how it came across to me. Most hunters including myself do not have the time or resources to hunt a lot. When they get an opportunity to take their quarry they can not pass up that opportunity (this is where i fit in, personally).
The deer herd will not disappear because we continue to shoot young deer. If something like that happened they would most likely just drop the amount of tags allotted, until numbers were back on the rise. As long as we continue to stick together as one against the anti's we will be good.
I believe all hunters that choose there shots well and strive to make quick clean kills on game are the true hunters.